Memorial Day 2012
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Veterans Memorial Day?
Excuse us for living, but what better way to begin a Memorial Day post than with the American Flag. In this day and age in our country, it represents the only common ground we have left that says, “Cease fire. We all agree about this.” (Well, most of us!) And if you are reading this, my compliments for taking time from your holiday weekend preparations &/or celebration for a patriotic moment.
Briefly, Memorial Day is set aside to take the time to remember and commemorate those who have died in the military service of our country. That is the essence of Memorial Day. But in practice, it is a day we also recognize all veterans of military service who are deceased. This is documented by the practice of the VFW, of which I am a member, and the American Legion, of which my father was a member, of placing a small American flag on the gravesites of as many veterans as they possibly can.
Then we have Veterans Day every November 11. This day is dedicated to honor veterans of military service to our country. It is usually associated with living veterans as opposed to the deceased. It has been suggested to combine both Memorial Day and Veterans Day into one day commemorating all who have served, both the deceased and the living. It does make more sense than forcing veterans to identify with Veterans Day because they are alive, only to slip into the Memorial Day “class” for others to honor once they are gone! And, in my opinion, Memorial Day is the more prominent and has the right “ring to it,” to combine both sentiments, honoring all veterans once a year, the deceased and the living. Naturally, this will never happen as long as we have enough living “vets” in the VFW and the American Legion to lobby Congress, waving that flag, to preserve November 11th as Veterans Day. Anyway, for the record, a “Veterans Memorial Day” would “do the trick,” as they say. We could all come together and put our arms around the living veterans at our annual barbecues and thank them and remember all our fallen heroes and veterans who have passed on in the process.
If how we identify personally is any measure, then I cast my vote for a “Veterans Memorial Day.” You may have relatives and friends, living or deceased, who are or were veterans. –Your grandfather, grandmother, father, mother, uncle, aunt, sister, brother, cousin, neighbor, schoolmate, friend. You pause on Memorial Day and remember him or her, that special person. If they are still alive, do you say to yourself, “Oops, I can’t include him?” Of course not, you just did! You don’t wait for Veterans Day.
“Buck Sergeant” Joseph A. Fontana, on the island of Saipan, southeast of Japan, Medic in U.S. Army Air Corps, July 1944 to Sept 1945, WWII
For me identifying means my father, SGT Joseph A. Fontana, medic in the U.S. Army Air Corps, pictured above sitting on a jeep in Saipan. He is long gone now. But like so many in “The Greatest Generation,” he spoke little of his fourteen months there. We have the old photos and even some WWII artifacts. We know he endured Japanese aircraft strafing the island. And I say “identify” and close with the following photo of another “GI” who is still alive, standing next to a jeep in Vietnam. Who? Check me out and the caption below.
Specialist Fourth Class Philip Fontana, Republic of South Vietnam, 97th Military Police Battalion, January to December 1970
Excuse us for living, but a “Veterans Memorial Day” just seems more appropriate.
Comments: What do you think?




















